Cybersex and Sexual Frustration
You can't concentrate on work, your libido's gone bezerk, you're sweatin' through your shirt, you've got a straaange disease! Hyper emotional sensations sent via television stations unaffected by locations, you've got a strange diseaaase! You can't seem to get to sleep, you don't want nothing to eat... Why? Because SHE (the four-letter-she!) left you all alone in this world of sexual frustration which leads to lack of motivation, loss of concentration and a few more disorders. You're sure familiar with these lovely lyrics which vividly describe your most horrible stage of this strange disease called sexual frustration.
Needless to say that cybersex and sexual frustration definitely go hand in hand my Nigerian virgin friend! The latter being the cause (sexual frustration), the former (cybersex) – the result, or, to be more precise, your desperate fitful attempts to get rid of above mentioned 'passive' results of the notorious frustration.
Cybersex does help when you are fighting with your sexual frustration somewhere on a desert island face to face with your laptop. Or when you simply do not have a girlfriend at the moment which suggests total crash of your sexship over a sexless deserted island...
You not only get rid of your can't-get-no-satisfaction syndrome with the help of cybersex, you also get involved in experimenting with your online sexual activities.
Now let's discuss the issue of experimenting with ones fantasy world more in detail. Online anonymity grants people a fine playground for sexual experiments. The attraction of chat rooms is that they offer a combination of 1) real-time interaction with people 2) anonymity and 3) the ability to get as close (or far) from one's real selves as one prefers. Such loss of inhibition allows people to freelestly experiment with their virtual selves. Whether it's an advantage or a highly alarming disorder within your multiplied selves – the question should be addressed to your psychiatrist (make sure you don't interrupt his online fun chatting when you rush to his office with your question!).
Why visit a doctor? – you may continue curiously inquiring. Ok, we'll dwell upon the issue more profoundly. The thing is, cybersex can enable partners to act out fantasies which they would never act out in the real life through role-playing due to physical or social limitations. Such extremes may suggest BDSM, zoophilia, incest, rape... Such anti-social behaviour in real life would certainly cause total misunderstanding, don't you think?
It doesn't mean, however, that you should stick to these extremes even in your anonymous online world for it may lead to sexual frustration of not having a possibility to perform these sexual extremes in reality...
As you can see, the issue of cybersex and its faithful friend called Sexual Frustration is very delicate. The crucial thing is not to cross the line, if only somebody stated where exactly this line was...