Cybersex vs the 'Real Thing'
Cybersex is either touching your keybord or touching yourself, the real thing is enjoying touching your warm and encouraging object of passion.
Internet sex doesn't require going through all these exhausting (for men) sexless dates, deep conversations and fitful attempts to sound smart, decent, sweet (the list may go on forever) in order your girlfriend to finally decide making the most of your mutually beneficial horniness.
Cybersex suggests not only solitary sex but also its solitary 'outcome', while the real thing lets you mutually beneficially enjoy your common before- and afterglows. What's better – an exciting illusion based on your fragile imaginary contact or real good sex (read as: really good; good and real) accompanied by out-of-this-wordly successful toescurling session? The answer is just too obvious, don't you agree?
Although one will never admit he's a cyberholic, it's scarcely possible to deceive yourself for a long time. Self-deception is bliss at times, but one is hardly ever orgasmic with it for long. Not to mention that cyber afterglow isn't really worth glowing for. Deep down inside one certainly realizes that his continuous cyber fun leaves him with nothing but a gloomy realization of his own pathetic existence.
If one's cybersex experience is occasional and doesn't imply serious obsessions, this sinful virtual (forbidden) fruit is not crucially dangerous. It lets you play with the virtual world but never makes you seriously fall for it because you are able to control the situation.
Cyber does have its advantages and demerits. It really is a clicking contradiction even in medical perception. Some specialists firmly state that its influence on people is destructive from both physical and mental points of view, others even advise people practising cybersex in order for them to get rid of their 'sexual shyness' and inability to set their imagination free even with their stable real partners. Looks like cyber fun sometimes even performs medically healing functions... However, the main thing is not to get an overdose with it of course. For the side effects may be harmful or even fatally lethal.
Let cybersex be your rare artificial vitamin C if you really think it'll help you make your real life less sour or plain. And if you desperately need advice on the subject – we would recommend you not to choose easy (cyber) ways and (start) proceed with flirting in the real life. Someone just has to be responsible for paying for dinner, after all!