Good Cybersex
What is good sex? Idiotic question regarding the fact that it's actions that matters, not words, definitions or explanations. But still we'll discuss it because we women – yes the author of this cyberthing is a woman (un)fortunately – discuss such things endlessly.
So, from a female's point of view (we have conducted many researches on the subject ;), the afterglow after great sex suggests you falling into some kind of euphoreac coma where you are able to do everything but move and preserve them orgasmic (in the literal sense, yes) sensations eloquently proved by your happily curled toes and huge desire to act totally blond and inadequate – sing silly songs under your covers and naughtily pillow fight with your personal sex God.
That's more than approximately what real sex may bring us. What about solitary one? Oh well, if we speak about cybersex let's call a spade a spade after all. However, they say cyber is not just solitary sex. It's solitary sexing knowing that somewhere there behind the screen there's certain sexy (hopefully sexy) someone who's solitary sexing in your honour. Now we're getting way too skeptical, it's high time we became all cold-bloodedly objective!
So, they say cybersex is not just solitary sex. It may be fake regarding technique, but it brings real feelings and emotions. These emotions are not necessarily as globally crazy as the ones during the real afterglow – we never stated cybersex was better than the real thing, after all. However, it would be unfair to say that virtual sex differs from solitary sex only because it implies you having sex with your PC...
Some people even state that good cybersex isn't just words created in their vivid imagination, that it's as intimate and real as the real one. Wow! We suppose that's how it goes with them cyberers – they start confusing their multiplied world – the real world vs. virtual one; the world of their limitless selves vs. the world of them bound to eternally restrict their sexual desires in their frustrated reality... Sounds confusing, eh?
However, these people are most likely in their virtual fantasies up to their necks, that's why trusting their words wouldn't suggest common sense either. In any case, you can always go to one of them post-modernistic therapists in order to be strongly recommended to try a virtually sexy thing or two...
The issue of Internet sex is highly controversial from any possible point of view – medical, social, real or virtual. It has both justified merits and disadvantages, its supporters and people who strongly object to the whole cyber universe. Virtual sex can be good – why deny testimonies of great amount of people, however, we shouldn't forget the fundamental axiom regarding the matter of cybersex: the 'Real Thing' is always better and healthier than any cyber fun.